Comments on: When Life Trumps Social Media Life

By: Tom Martin

Tom Martin — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 13:25:43 +0000

Sue

A damn fine reminder and a great post to start the new year. I think you, like a lot of us, struggle with finding the time. They key is to find strategies that allow us to connect online during down times — I love all the social media apps for my iPhone — like walking to my car or waiting for yet another meeting to start (late).

Other than that… sleep deprivation seems to be the #1 way to play in both the online/offline world.

@TomMartin

By: admin

admin — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 16:23:21 +0000

“I know my kids would agree.” Pretty much hit the heart of it right there, Jeff. Little people grow up fast. And for those that don’t have little people, life goes awfully fast nonetheless. Social media definitely enhances it, but definitely doesn’t recreate it. Thank you for stopping by.

By: admin

admin — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 16:21:16 +0000

Haha. Daily exercise in letting yourself down indeed. Social media is like Christmas – it always seems like there should be more, more, more. And we have to learn to appreciate what we have. You are definitely not deluded, in fact that’s a great observation. Those of us who know you and what you do love it regardless of whether it happens as “on schedule” as it should. In fact, we’re all so caught up in our own whirlwinds that we mostly don’t realize when someone else is “lagging” behind where they might want to be. Less pressure. More fun! Have a great holiday Tamsen and thanks for always being here. Hoping I get to meet you IRL in 2010!

By: Jeff Turner

Jeff Turner — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 00:31:19 +0000

My wife “forced” me to take Sunday off from all computer activity a long time ago. At first it seemed like quite a sacrifice. So much to do. So little time. I can’t remember exactly when I stopped feeling like it was a sacrifice, but at some point it did. I now consider it a blessing. Some experiences simply can’t be recreated online. I know my kids would agree.

By: Tamsen McMahon (@tamadear)

Tamsen McMahon (@tamadear) — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 19:39:13 +0000

Ah, social media, that daily exercise in letting yourself down.

The key for me is to be as true as I can to my own pattern, not that of other people’s. Perhaps I’m deluded, but I think those that trouble themselves to pay attention to what I do realize I go in fits and starts that are highly dependent on both work life (clients trump social media, always) and real life (with which, as you say, there’s no freaking contest).

That’s why it’s good to read posts like this that remind me I’m not the only one who thinks that way…. Thank you, Sue.

By: admin

admin — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 02:37:39 +0000

Thanks, Ladies. Anna I like your plan of allocating specific times to blog. I’m not sure if I can live up to that, sometimes inspiration strikes at the most inconvenient times, and then doesn’t strike when you actually have time. But like you said, all we can do is “keep it real as we move ahead” and do the best we can. And it’s nice to hear someone else say “It’s OK.” Thank you for your support and friendship : )

By: Anna Barcelos

Anna Barcelos — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 06:51:51 +0000

Ohh Sue, I can so relate! I’ve been at my new company now for six months and anticipating a full-speed ahead in 2010. At the same time, there are the social media responsibilities that I committed to both personally and professionally that I haven’t quite lived up to myself.

I’m thinking about 2010 and actually putting together a more realistic plan (personal and professional)for social media. I am unsubscribing to blogs I hardly read. I am allocating specific times to blog and going to try to manage this like clockwork. 2010 is the year of reality and simplicity for me. I have learned a lot this year and at huge time costs. But it’s a good thing because I’ve learned how to keep it real as we move ahead.

And in no way, shape or form will I ever replace/sacrifice/prioritize any of these things over my family. They always come first.

So go sledding and act goofy with your child. Turn your computer off and read a book. Keep going to your yoga classes.

You know why? BECAUSE IT’S OK (Although I do miss seeing you around!)

By: Linda Neff

Linda Neff — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 17:52:54 +0000

While you’ve shared with us that it’s not about being he smartest person at the table, I want you to know you are the smartest person at the table! Thanks for reminding us that we must constantly re-evaluate priorities and that the real magic happens not in the declaration of re-prioritizing, rather the doing of it.

May you and all of your readers enjoy every peaceful and chaotic moment of this holiday season!

By: Diane Charno

Diane Charno — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 05:03:23 +0000

Funny, I’m way behind on my blog reading and manage to come across this tonight

I agree, social media will and should take a back seat to real life. But at the same time, we’re always trying to stay a step ahead with emerging media.

I’ll keep striving for that moderation and life/work balance. You should definitely keep up the yoga. I’m sure that helps you find that balance.

By: admin

admin — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 19:27:46 +0000

That’s a great point, Jeff, and I definitely agree that when I take the time to do the yoga, and stay more in balance, it pays off professionally. For me, it’s really the only way I can keep the stress of spinning many plates in check, and stay focused. (And the only way I can keep from becoming a raging bee-otch. Just ask my boss.) I’m hoping for more of a blend of quality and quantity in the future, but for now, I accept and appreciate the kind compliment. Do make the most of the weekend.

Sue